נולדתי ב-1930 בבאדן-באדן בגרמניה ועם עלייתם של הנאצים לשלטון משפחתי ברחה לפריז. עם פרוץ מלחמת העולם השנייה אבי נאסר ולאחר הכיבוש הגרמני של צרפת אמי מסרה אותי ואת אחיותי הקטנות, אריקה וז’ורז’ט לבית הילדים שאטו דה שומון מתוך מטרה לספק לנו הגנה מרוחות המלחמה שנשבו ברחבי אירופה. ביולי 1942 בית הילדים פוזר בעקבות הלשנה לגרמנים ,שכבר היו באזור ,אני ואחיותי נאלצנו לברוח. ידעתי שאמי נמצאת בליון, כך שזו הייתה ההחלטה המתבקשת להתאחד איתה. שהגעתי לליון גיליתי שאמי נאסרה אז בלי לחשוב יותר מידי הגעתי לבית הסוהר ואמרתי לסוהרים: “שחררו את אמי מיד. היא לא גנבה ולא רצחה אף אחד. אין שום סיבה בעולם שהיא תהייה פה.” הסוהרים איימו עלי שהם יכלאו גם אותי אבל אני לא ויתרתי: “אתם יכולים לכלוא גם אותי, בכל מקרה ההורים שלי בכלא. אתם לא צרפתים אמיתיים אלא בוגדים ואתם יודעים טוב מאוד מה עושים לבוגדים!”. הסוהרים כל כך נדהמו מהאומץ שלי שהם פשוט שחררו את ...
Why did you not seek revenge? “Because revenge creates a new victim. I did not want to hurt anybody. I didn’t think by hurting somebody, that would make me feel good. We usually pay revenge to people who did not, children of perpetrators, family members of perpetrators. How on earth does that teach anything except an eye for an eye a tooth for a tooth? I don’t think that chapter of the Bible should be remembered so well. I never wanted to hurt anybody. I hope that the survivors who are angry with me someday will realize that I will not change or go back to being a suffering victim, just because they have a problem with it. I consider myself a victorious survivor. To survive, I had to be victorious.” From where did you find the strength to forgive Mengele? “Once I realized that I had the power ...
“All around me are familiar faces Worn out places, worn out faces Bright and early for their daily races Going nowhere, going nowhere Their tears are filling up their glasses No expression, no expression Hide my head, I want to drown my sorrow No tomorrow, no tomorrow And I find it kinda funny, I find it kinda sad The dreams in which I’m dying are the best I’ve ever had I find it hard to tell you, I find it hard to take When people run in circles it’s a very very Mad world, mad world.”
“If I learned one thing from being a flight attendant is that if you don’t have a passport you should apply for one after you finishing reading this sentence. The world is such a fascinating place and if you’re not exploring it you’re missing Humanity as a whole. Traveling in the world will give you a better perspective on life. Through the travel opportunity, you will get out of your comfort zone and into a Zone of GrOwth. Collect beautiful moments and elevate your soul. Boarding and traveling the world is actually the best gift you can give yourself.”
“The truth is, I can’t explain how I’ve gotten to be 100 years old. I’ll just say that it’s a blend of good genes and a quality of life that you just don’t see anymore nowadays. I’ve always been moderate and exact in life. I didn’t need cigarettes. I didn’t need drugs. I didn’t need to get drunk. And I didn’t need too much sugar. Because of my moderate ways, I’ve managed to flourish for almost 100 years of constant shifts. Shifts from the analog world, where everything functions in a sluggish manner- to the digital age, where everything moves at the speed of light. From a time where it would take more than two months for a letter to get to New York- I now live in a time where you can get a message to the other side of the world at the push of a button. I’m surrounded ...
“My grandma Miriam was always there for me. She changed my diapers and wiped my nose when I was a toddler. She used to embrace me every time I came back from kindergarten to my home. While I was there, she made sure I won’t be hungry by preparing me her Michelin three-star “malawach”. When I grew up and started dating, she gave me great tips on how I should treat my girlfriends. We have such a great connection that she actually reads me like an open book. Whenever I have something on my mind, I know that she will be the voice of reason and will help me sort it out. Right now I’m on my way to my weekly meeting with her. To all the grand-kids out there: Don’t be douche bags; a phone call once or twice a week is nice, but not enough. Find the time ...
“In the Russian Jewish culture you are not supposed to show your emotions and the education you receive is very strict. I grew up with a very dominant mother who wanted us to excel in everything we did. If I would come home with a low grade on one of my exams from school I knew that my parents will be disappointed with me. It didn’t matter if you liked or hated the subject you where tested in. The only thing that mattered was to be at the top of your class so that later on you could enter one of the Ivy League schools so you could get a degree that would help you launch a decent career. I came to value the mentality of ‘Suck it in’ but I know that I will educate my kids differently. I will not force them to overcome every challenge they might ...